I am still trying to get rid of this blasted cold. I call it holiday blue flu. Coming back into this cold, dull and wet country when I was just sunning it up in a hot climate, by the beach being waited on hand and foot.
Hey ho, back to the daily grind. It does take me a while to get back into the swing of things. Bear with me as be back on form real soon.
Gutted, that I had to put off a photo shoot which everything was in place for, I just cant take decent pics while felt that way. Will reschedule soon.
Changed my hair colour yet again, back to brown – but may get some nice long extensions soon, want to try that out next. Getting more adventurous with my hair as I get older.
Got my lashes sorted (they managed to last the duration of the holiday) – nails also, check. So I am getting there. I have had a few real-time sessions and a catching up with all my online sessions now.
Alpha has been busy also which is always good – like to keep that man working away.
Right, on the techinical side. The issues we had with some sign ups on both sites https://sissy-central.com and http://expose-a-sissy.com all have now been addresses. If you happen to experience any issues please do let me know on this email: firstname.lastname@example.org I will get any issue looked into for you and sorted.
So, now we enter the festive season. Really can’t be arsed with Christmas joy, I just look forward to the new year rolling in. Bring on 2020 as so much to come. The Dungeon (see twitter profiles @SEDungeon and @SELondonStudio1) will be my main priority at the beginning of the year hopefully aiming to open in March/April. I am glad the works will be starting when the weather hopefully will start to get a little warmer. Gosh, I can’t stand the cold.
Contemplating moving out of the UK for the chilly winter season and come back only for our summer, which would mean my real-times would have to come visit me or wait until summer to see me – sorry guys. But that is something that won’t be happening any time soon. With the dungeon anyway I will be back and forth regardless of who I have to look after it for me as that will be my baby and main priority for a long time.
Hoping to see more sign ups on my sites and also see some more activity too.
I know it is an expensive time coming up but not everything costs in life – just the good things.
Remember mistress likes to be spoilt at Christmas too – so get saving. I do like Christmas for that reason only the gifts that come with it, as its not just paypigs and finsubs that send me gifts then – I love receiving and that always makes me enjoy that time of year more. So you know what to do. Links to my wishlist are on my site or cash always makes me happy. I also am accepting amazon.co.uk giftcards ONLY not .com. So feel free to send away.
Just wanna say a massive thanks to those that have supported me and continued contact and created accounts as well as uploaded any material onto my sites – keep up the good work girlies… x mwah x
With love AND hate as come hand in hand with me.
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Hey folks.. How is it going…
Been a little while since I have blogged so thought would do another..
Just been so busy recently.
I am off on my travels in 2 weeks, going to visit a sub in Turkey in which I am going to incorporate my holiday there with my BBC hubby too. The sub I will be seeing has been serving me a long time online and be great to finally meet the little weasel in person, can’t wait. He has been wanting to meet up for a long time but unfortunately has not come to London, in the time he has served me. I rarely travel to see subs, only if have served me for a long period of time or of course they are paying for an all expenses paid holiday for me (and my husband as we like to travel together where possible, it’s a great life) or a friend as I do not travel alone.
Sissy-Central has been coming along nicely and of course Expose-a-Sissy. I am loving all the posts where people have been exposing themselves for all to see, its exciting for me to see it being well used. Keep them coming.
We unfortunately, have been having some technical issues with some peoples accounts upon sign-up, please bear with us this will be fixed soon.
Still always looking for anyone who can write content or upload – always happy to extend our Sissy-Central family. If anyone feels they have got what it takes to write about life being a sissy, how it felt before or after transition, what it’s like to life you life a lie etc. Any story you got to tell would be amazing. Real life content is what we are after.
The dungeon works have yet to start – I am sure I told you before, the emptying of the property was a long process as previous tenant was a hoarder and the landlord is a very slow mover – it’s a family property so no major rush on their, part just mine. I like to get things done. But it looks like works will now start after I return from holiday. I have to be there Project Managing it all, as I like to oversea things in general and of course micro manage, well manage everything really.
Still always looking for good labourers or materials that can be donated or used as part tribute for sessions booked in with me – always happy to negotiate.
A slave of mine brought an e-stim machine off Mistress Alana for me (see my twitter) who came to mine to drop item off. It was wonderful to meet her also. I love the machine can’t wait to use on the slave who purchased it for me.
I have been quite booked up recently and now rarely ever take a booking without a deposit for those that don’t know. Have had a few let downs in the past and this can muck up my whole schedule not to mention make me turn away work for a session that won’t happen – so please always know this and don’t take offence – I do not take a booking without one.
Really hope to hear from you all at some point, with some feedback whether good or not it is all constructive.
With Love & Hate..
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Hey folks.. its competition time….. have a read:
TO WIN a session with Mistress Xena (online) a Physical (& virtual), Sissy ID card and a years premium membership on Sissy-central & Expose-a-Sissy
To enter you must be a signed up basic member of the site (as with all our competitions and you will automatically be entered).
Submit an article via https://social.sissy-central.com/submit. The best article, judged by Mistress Xena wins the prize.
Submission guidelines: articles can be true confessions, guides or fiction.
Must be minimum 500 words
Must have at least one image of 800px wide (height not an issue)
PLEASE INCLUDE “COMP1” below the title
PLEASE NOTE: those that may have already signed up before the official launch date please could you resign up, everything prior to launch was a dummy but now we have the live site.
On the Studio / Dungeon side of things:
Please also, check out: https://www.patreon.com/SELondonSpace any donations would be greatly appreciated as we will be using these premises for any future Sissy-Central make overs and events such as fashion shows, shoots, filming etc.
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Hey hey hey…
It’s about that time.. well very nearly..
We have less than an hour to go before www.sissy-central.com officially launches.
Very exciting times for us here in our Sissy Family. Hopefully for you all also.
Hope we have more sign ups as we will be doing some competitions very soon with some fantastic prizes.
Stay tuned and see you very shortly..
Much love from me and the Sissy-Central family.
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Another fun day in the Xena household…
I had a few cam sessions, couple phone and texting sessions and one fun realtime session with a Sissy sub who was not great at taking pain. However, what they lacked in pain threshold they made up for it in other ways, such as obedience, good selection of clothes, servitude etc…
Usually, when I have a first session with a new sub it’s good to get a feel for one another and know what the other wants from the session. I am fed up of hearing subs say “whatever mistress wants, mistress can do” as usually this is not the case… usually there will be something that the sub does not want to do and either will say no to a mistress during session which shouldn’t really happen or them leaving the session unhappy and unsatisfied (well that is how some of my subs want it to go but we also have to establish that at the beginning of our first session).. I also like to explore if a sub is not sure, then this is where the traffic light codes work for me, as a safe word… the usual, green means go/good, amber means hmmmm not bad but close to limit and red means no it hurts/I don’t like it please stop.. when a sub says red (which the Sissy I met tonight said a few times) I then stop and lessen the power just a little and tease Haha but of course I do respect all my subs to a certain extent as I expect them to and KNOW they respect me…
I really do not like doing sessions without safe words as have had a few bad experiences so usually wouldn’t do a session where a sub doesn’t want a safe word in place.
Anyway, this Sissy slut had a fab red, string vest type dress and some very high heels.. not to mention a wig and stockings as you can see in the pictures below..
Objectification was also on the agenda with the Sissy, acting as a rather sturdy table and footstool…
Looking for some more sissies to train up.. when I have my dungeon, I will be renovating and moving into soon, I will have a whole wardrobe of wigs & clothes in a mixture of sizes as well as some size 9+ shoes, for all my sluts to dress up in.. will also have a mirror with a vanity table with make up and hold sissy events where we can all have some girly fun mistresses and sissies alike..
Right that’s me, signing off… like I said will try write more posts even if they are short… some will be sweet, others not so..
Oh, by the way.. have dyed my hair some amazing colours… right Technicolor mish mash I got going on now.. my subs will see of course and those that Cam with me…
Sleep well bitches. I will, as always.
With love and hate
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Hey there people…
All I can say is WOW this heat is pretty nuts, I am based in London and we are not used to such long periods of heat, without rain. It drizzled a little yesterday but the smallest amount. It needed it anyway.
I had a realtime session yesterday evening, with a local sub but he was sweating up in the collar and hogties. We actually ended the session earlier as he clearly couldn’t handle it, the heat got to him a bit also We had a bit of servitude and a little BDSM/Pain but he couldnt really take the heat plus he didnt want any marks whatsoever as had a suspcious wife that may inspect him when home, so left it like that and just had some short fun, but the little fucker got out of doing my dishes as that was next on the agenda for him to do.
Earlier today, I had a very rewarding ATM/Cashpoint meet – this is what I call findom (not money for femdom as that is totally different as a service is provided over some time)… This paypig was as good as they get simply wanting a quick meet, maximum withdrawal and then he walked away with a smile on his face – no doubt with a tingling in his pants also. He didnt want a slap, spit in face or any type of recording or pictures taken (ok maybe he wasnt the perfect paypig as the ones that don’t mind – are, as like to have as much as I can caught on cam, but understand a subs/pigs need for privacy as they must do mine).
I am getting really excited about my next project, which is my dungeon in South East London (if want to know specific location please contact me direct as on a need-to-know basis only at present). The dungeon will be located in the basement part of the building which gives it that authentic dungeon feel, with exposed brick work, cages and many other bits of equipment that will be available to use.
Upstairs, will be a clinical looking area for hire.. The place can be used for events, studio/photgraphy, make overs and of course webcamming, as will have a computer station with webcam and internet access set up. This is where I will be holding the up coming London #FSSG meeting’s on behalf of: www.femocracyglobal.com
I will also be holding other events there too (see my twitter for recent poll about what type of events the majority would like to see happen more often there).
The dungeon itself will be available to ALL the ladies in the FSSG movement at a very reduced rate but other than that it will be a private booking system, allowing only those I personally know to use it. I will of course be holding all my future sessions there apart for those special few who I will let come worship me in my home and serve me amongst my personal not professional surrroundings. It is not and will not be open for any public or randoms too book.
I am hoping the dungeon will be open after the summer here in London – as we will need a good 2 months or so to renovate it. I will be getting the keys handed to me anyway day now, exciting times.
Once again I am asking any subs who generally are hard working (labour) and/or have a trade that can be used in my new project then do get in touch as we can arrange something in return for one another’s services.
This was just a quick note, as said I was going to try do more of them in future.
Don’t be shy folks, come and say hi… show your support or just have a browse at my site – I hope you enjoy it.
Any feedback is greatly appreciated.
With Love & Hate lol….
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