I am still trying to get rid of this blasted cold. I call it holiday blue flu. Coming back into this cold, dull and wet country when I was just sunning it up in a hot climate, by the beach being waited on hand and foot.
Hey ho, back to the daily grind. It does take me a while to get back into the swing of things. Bear with me as be back on form real soon.
Gutted, that I had to put off a photo shoot which everything was in place for, I just cant take decent pics while felt that way. Will reschedule soon.
Changed my hair colour yet again, back to brown – but may get some nice long extensions soon, want to try that out next. Getting more adventurous with my hair as I get older.
Got my lashes sorted (they managed to last the duration of the holiday) – nails also, check. So I am getting there. I have had a few real-time sessions and a catching up with all my online sessions now.
Alpha has been busy also which is always good – like to keep that man working away.
Right, on the techinical side. The issues we had with some sign ups on both sites http://sissy-central.com and http://expose-a-sissy.com all have now been addresses. If you happen to experience any issues please do let me know on this email: email@example.com I will get any issue looked into for you and sorted.
So, now we enter the festive season. Really can’t be arsed with Christmas joy, I just look forward to the new year rolling in. Bring on 2020 as so much to come. The Dungeon (see twitter profiles @SEDungeon and @SELondonStudio1) will be my main priority at the beginning of the year hopefully aiming to open in March/April. I am glad the works will be starting when the weather hopefully will start to get a little warmer. Gosh, I can’t stand the cold.
Contemplating moving out of the UK for the chilly winter season and come back only for our summer, which would mean my real-times would have to come visit me or wait until summer to see me – sorry guys. But that is something that won’t be happening any time soon. With the dungeon anyway I will be back and forth regardless of who I have to look after it for me as that will be my baby and main priority for a long time.
Hoping to see more sign ups on my sites and also see some more activity too.
I know it is an expensive time coming up but not everything costs in life – just the good things.
Remember mistress likes to be spoilt at Christmas too – so get saving. I do like Christmas for that reason only the gifts that come with it, as its not just paypigs and finsubs that send me gifts then – I love receiving and that always makes me enjoy that time of year more. So you know what to do. Links to my wishlist are on my site or cash always makes me happy. I also am accepting amazon.co.uk giftcards ONLY not .com. So feel free to send away.
Just wanna say a massive thanks to those that have supported me and continued contact and created accounts as well as uploaded any material onto my sites – keep up the good work girlies… x mwah x
With love AND hate as come hand in hand with me.
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Hey folks.. How is it going…
Been a little while since I have blogged so thought would do another..
Just been so busy recently.
I am off on my travels in 2 weeks, going to visit a sub in Turkey in which I am going to incorporate my holiday there with my BBC hubby too. The sub I will be seeing has been serving me a long time online and be great to finally meet the little weasel in person, can’t wait. He has been wanting to meet up for a long time but unfortunately has not come to London, in the time he has served me. I rarely travel to see subs, only if have served me for a long period of time or of course they are paying for an all expenses paid holiday for me (and my husband as we like to travel together where possible, it’s a great life) or a friend as I do not travel alone.
Sissy-Central has been coming along nicely and of course Expose-a-Sissy. I am loving all the posts where people have been exposing themselves for all to see, its exciting for me to see it being well used. Keep them coming.
We unfortunately, have been having some technical issues with some peoples accounts upon sign-up, please bear with us this will be fixed soon.
Still always looking for anyone who can write content or upload – always happy to extend our Sissy-Central family. If anyone feels they have got what it takes to write about life being a sissy, how it felt before or after transition, what it’s like to life you life a lie etc. Any story you got to tell would be amazing. Real life content is what we are after.
The dungeon works have yet to start – I am sure I told you before, the emptying of the property was a long process as previous tenant was a hoarder and the landlord is a very slow mover – it’s a family property so no major rush on their, part just mine. I like to get things done. But it looks like works will now start after I return from holiday. I have to be there Project Managing it all, as I like to oversea things in general and of course micro manage, well manage everything really.
Still always looking for good labourers or materials that can be donated or used as part tribute for sessions booked in with me – always happy to negotiate.
A slave of mine brought an e-stim machine off Mistress Alana for me (see my twitter) who came to mine to drop item off. It was wonderful to meet her also. I love the machine can’t wait to use on the slave who purchased it for me.
I have been quite booked up recently and now rarely ever take a booking without a deposit for those that don’t know. Have had a few let downs in the past and this can muck up my whole schedule not to mention make me turn away work for a session that won’t happen – so please always know this and don’t take offence – I do not take a booking without one.
Really hope to hear from you all at some point, with some feedback whether good or not it is all constructive.
With Love & Hate..
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Hey all you fabulous (and not so fabulous) people..
Haven’t blogged in a little while so thought I would finally do another. I have been so busy with some work commitments as well as attending a wake and a celebration of life that I helped organise – it took a lot out of me and away from my work. But I am back and back with a vengeance I am.
I am getting fed up of people trying to contact me, who I have already disguarded previously. If I have blocked you I have blocked you for a reason. You have either annoyed me, with you constant going on, picture sending and unplanned Skype calls, maybe you have just continued to waste my time with broken promises and fake proof of payment when I clearly know what has been paid and what hasn’t …….or it may be that once upon a time you worked for or with me but we had crossed words and decided to part – if it is the latter please note once I leave things in the past it is leave there a bit like an ex-boyfriend.
Please don’t take it personal but people that have once brought me negative energy (no matter what you may have or may have not done for me in the past) then I don’t want to know. Forwards not backwards they are the movements I like to take. I have a few social slaves who deal with my male in the first instance and I get reported back as to what messages I get, doesn’t mean I will respond though, which is my prerogative – simple.
Anyway, on the website front. Sissy-Central seems to be going from strength to strength as does Expose-a-Sissy. We are slowly getting more sign ups. Please note at present we only have the basic membership (which you have to have to communicate with others on site) active but paid memberships are coming soon.
There is a competition see photo below and previous blog: https://www.goddessxena.co.uk/sc-announcements/sissy-central-competition/
Please submit entries to: http://social.sissy-central.com/submit
I have had a few entries already but need more so get writing girls.
Recently we have been having some chats with a possibly new collaborator/TS mistress to come on board. I wont mention any names as yet not until they have a profile on Sissy-Central. But I can assure you that this wonderful new contact will be writing some great pieces maybe weekly, for us in regards to what is is like becoming a TS girl in real life with everyone knowing etc. For many of you I think she will become you new idol. The TS mistress will also be bringing out a book soon on I suppose all the up’s and down’s(but from what I hear it has most certainly been more up’s since the transition).
I also have a male dom who is happy to come on board and likes to take control of TS girls. Please email for more info as nothing is set in stone yet but we can always arrange things if necessary.
I have finally started to get back into the swing of things and you will see me more active here and on the other sites we have. Had a wonderful sub come over yesterday who sorted my kitchen out, as needed it had so much washing up. I also have a cuck coming over at 5pm, so very soon to serve me and my husband – which is always a lot of fun.
The dungeon is also being slowly done (still in the emptying stages – any donators will get full progress updates).
Please don’t forget to enter the competition as lots of goodies to win including a free session with me.
Hope to see you more active on sites.
Much Love & hate to some
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Another day has gone by in this humid weather, I’m all for the Sun but not when it’s hiding behind the clouds. Need to feel the sunlight on my cheeks and get my dose of vitamin d..
Been quite slack on my site recently but that will change soon I can assure you.
I, of course and doing camming and realtime sessions but now I usually only do with a deposit to secure booking as have had a few let downs recently which is very annoying. I do get that many chicken out or realize cannot afford the sessions maybe just got carried away when booking but this doesn’t mean that it’s OK to do.
I get that things happen last minute so I always ask to be notified at the earliest opportunity so can take another booking or plan out my day/evening accordingly.
One other thing a Sub, Sissy, Slave or any other name they wanna be called, doesn’t seem to get is that dommes have busy schedules and if provisionally take a booking without a deposit this can be a risk and many times I have put off another job cause of the booking have provisionally (with no deposit) but then gets cancelled last minute or I could be sitting there waiting for fuck all, as no ones coming.
So imagine, turning a booking away, planned ahead and have everything ready for the time agreed and scheduled and then narda, nothing not even a “sorry mistress something has come up” followed by some ridiculous excuse. I think that is very wrong and disrespectful and the decent thing would, is to let me know.
I am human too (believe it or not) and also may have to reschedule a session where needed but I would always give enough notice and if the case would carry on deposit already paid to another time and date we both could do but this but very rarely happens, if at all.
However, if a sub does not give me notice then of course goes without saying you would loose deposit as you would with anything you purchase online or enter verbal agreement but cancelled without notice, very simple rules if you ask me. Notice means can carry over, no notice means it’s a cost incurred by you, get it.
Anyway hope you get my drift, had a little ramble about time-wasters in my previous blog and now about the ones that don’t get why ask for deposit and may think that this is a way to get money from you instantly before blocking.
If a sub does their homework on a domme then he/she should never be ripped off.
My inbox is full of subs and slaves I have liaised with that tell me there horror stories after been chatting to me, should I feel sympathy …NO.. If you had came to be in the first instance then all would be good, sorry I cannot sympathize with you no more as have done many times.
Only so much I can hear it.
Anyway with love and hate
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Just a quick update so you do not think I have gone off the radar – I just have been busy with many othedr things amongst the sessions I do on and offline.
I have some exciting news though… I am speaking to a few big wig about publishing my book. Well I say big wigs but they definatly have a big input in the piblishing world. I will be writing about my life (always wanted to do even before I became a domme) and how I became to be one. I will be mentioning many things about my previous ‘vanilla’ life, as some of the things I have seen, done and been involved in the past is quick shocking and definatly entertaining to say the least.
I am hoping my many loyal fans buy a book (wish I will of course sign if any request so) and help promote it as best as they can.
In regards to my dungeon, that will be happening in the next few months. I am recruiting any sub or slave that has a trade, ideally but skilled or unskilled labourers also will be wanted at some point. I will of course in return offer a session or a pay at an ideally, reduced rate. It needs to be renovated and a shower installed with new toilet. I already have a few helpers and a Project Manager.
The dungeon will be located in South East London, exact location will be avaliable upon request.
I am always looking for loyal, obedient, trust worthy and hard working slaves to work with me and for me.
If all goes well I should be opening dungeon I say by end of summer, all being well. The book I am giving myself the deadline of the end of this year. That is very ambtious for me I know but I like to set myself goals and get things done when get an idea in my head.
Anyway, thats me signing off for short bit…
Be back soon.
With Love & Hate..
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Hey there people…
All I can say is WOW this heat is pretty nuts, I am based in London and we are not used to such long periods of heat, without rain. It drizzled a little yesterday but the smallest amount. It needed it anyway.
I had a realtime session yesterday evening, with a local sub but he was sweating up in the collar and hogties. We actually ended the session earlier as he clearly couldn’t handle it, the heat got to him a bit also We had a bit of servitude and a little BDSM/Pain but he couldnt really take the heat plus he didnt want any marks whatsoever as had a suspcious wife that may inspect him when home, so left it like that and just had some short fun, but the little fucker got out of doing my dishes as that was next on the agenda for him to do.
Earlier today, I had a very rewarding ATM/Cashpoint meet – this is what I call findom (not money for femdom as that is totally different as a service is provided over some time)… This paypig was as good as they get simply wanting a quick meet, maximum withdrawal and then he walked away with a smile on his face – no doubt with a tingling in his pants also. He didnt want a slap, spit in face or any type of recording or pictures taken (ok maybe he wasnt the perfect paypig as the ones that don’t mind – are, as like to have as much as I can caught on cam, but understand a subs/pigs need for privacy as they must do mine).
I am getting really excited about my next project, which is my dungeon in South East London (if want to know specific location please contact me direct as on a need-to-know basis only at present). The dungeon will be located in the basement part of the building which gives it that authentic dungeon feel, with exposed brick work, cages and many other bits of equipment that will be available to use.
Upstairs, will be a clinical looking area for hire.. The place can be used for events, studio/photgraphy, make overs and of course webcamming, as will have a computer station with webcam and internet access set up. This is where I will be holding the up coming London #FSSG meeting’s on behalf of: www.femocracyglobal.com
I will also be holding other events there too (see my twitter for recent poll about what type of events the majority would like to see happen more often there).
The dungeon itself will be available to ALL the ladies in the FSSG movement at a very reduced rate but other than that it will be a private booking system, allowing only those I personally know to use it. I will of course be holding all my future sessions there apart for those special few who I will let come worship me in my home and serve me amongst my personal not professional surrroundings. It is not and will not be open for any public or randoms too book.
I am hoping the dungeon will be open after the summer here in London – as we will need a good 2 months or so to renovate it. I will be getting the keys handed to me anyway day now, exciting times.
Once again I am asking any subs who generally are hard working (labour) and/or have a trade that can be used in my new project then do get in touch as we can arrange something in return for one another’s services.
This was just a quick note, as said I was going to try do more of them in future.
Don’t be shy folks, come and say hi… show your support or just have a browse at my site – I hope you enjoy it.
Any feedback is greatly appreciated.
With Love & Hate lol….
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